The only thing which ever matters is you, your life and your own happiness. Rest all are fundaes. Finding happiness in somebody else's happiness is not a correct statement. Tomorrow if that person does some harm to you or your ego, will you be happy for that person. May be. May be NOT. Its your happiness always. Accept it. Your happiness in seeing someone smile, in being with some, in just being in a scene which is happy, in just helping someone, is Your happiness. Its all about you. Remember that.
Whatever u do, if you know its not gonna work, it will never work. So forget it. Thats what u r gonna do, today or later on after shedding many tears. If u want something, believe you can make it work and be prepared to fight for it. Nothing comes for free. If u want it, you need to do something about it. God is not there to give you your wishes. Fight and take it or just LEAVE it. Dont Crib.
Love yourself. Its the minimum you can do for you. You are Special. Believe it. Its always true. Whatever people may think, its their obseration from the slit of a pin-hole, thats their world view. They may have their observations wrong. They may have assumptions which are invalid. Their experiences may prove u wrong, but given the sample space of their observations, probability of it being correct is still close to zero. [One may know 100 or 100 people but 1000/6 billion still tantamounts to 0].
What anyone thinks, in the end, It doesn't even matter. Live your life, do what you like. Free your thoughts. Make yourself happy. Thats what you live for.
Whatever u do, if you know its not gonna work, it will never work. So forget it. Thats what u r gonna do, today or later on after shedding many tears. If u want something, believe you can make it work and be prepared to fight for it. Nothing comes for free. If u want it, you need to do something about it. God is not there to give you your wishes. Fight and take it or just LEAVE it. Dont Crib.
Love yourself. Its the minimum you can do for you. You are Special. Believe it. Its always true. Whatever people may think, its their obseration from the slit of a pin-hole, thats their world view. They may have their observations wrong. They may have assumptions which are invalid. Their experiences may prove u wrong, but given the sample space of their observations, probability of it being correct is still close to zero. [One may know 100 or 100 people but 1000/6 billion still tantamounts to 0].
What anyone thinks, in the end, It doesn't even matter. Live your life, do what you like. Free your thoughts. Make yourself happy. Thats what you live for.